Dress c/o Stylewise Direct | Boots: River Island
It’s a great dress though, it ticks all of the things I want in my wardrobe at the moment- denim, embroidery and loose fitting.
I can’t say I’m happy with these photos, they are wonky, I hate how I look in them and I was battling against high winds. I didn’t have time to re-take them so I’m continuing my battle against my inner perfectionist and sharing them anyway. That kind of brings me in to doing a little update about life. On the whole life is great- work is going really well, I’m ridiculously happy in my relationship and it finally feels like everything is slotting in to place for me. Of course a large part of that (and it feels, quite literally large) is my ongoing recovery from anorexia. It’s picking up pace, which is great, really great. I’ve finally pulled my head out of the sand and am doing exactly what I’m meant to be doing. It’s taking it’s toll though on my self perception. My confidence in how I look is rock bottom, I can see and feel every minute change in my body, ones that nobody else is likely to pick up on. That is another reason for the recent lack of outfit posts and one I try to keep quiet about, but it’s also real life and part of who I am. I’m trying to accept I still have a few kilos to gain before I’m where I need to be, and that once I get there things will settle and I will start to appreciate and nurture the healthy body I have created. In the mean time my mantra has become “if it doesn’t challenge you, it doesn’t change you” and just keep ploughing through.
Life on the whole is bloody brilliant. I can’t remember the last time I’ve ever been this happy. Eating disorder recovery remains ridiculously hard- no matter how much you want that healthy life and body and everything that goes with it, there’s still that little demon residing in your head screaming at you that you don’t need this weight, you don’t need this food and you don’t deserve this life.
But now I accept that’s part of it. And it’s probably harder now that it ever has been because there is no going back this time. This is final. This is it. At the grand old age of 30 I am finally re-claiming my life.
It’s great to hear that work and love are going well. I’ve always admired your honesty about your anorexia. It takes courage to write it all down and publish it for the world to read. It allows for greater understanding, and no doubt can help people going through the same issues. It’s only through talking about things that things can really change. I take my hat off to you Laura. I’ll never skip over such posts from you, they’re an important part of your life. I wish you all the very best in your recovery, it’s great to hear that things are going in the right direction. Don’t give up, don’t ever stop fighting, you’ve come so far. Sending big hugs and positive vibes xx
You are a star Laura, I love your style and your great attitude towards making progress. You have so much support out here <3 So happy for you in your new relationship and glad that you are reaching a good place. Keep up the great work my dear xx
You are looking gorgeous and I’m so glad you are doing well and sharing it with us. Happy Weekend
I’m very glad that things are going well and that you are embracing the challenge of recovery. You are worth the effort and time so keep telling yourself what you are telling yourself. I’ll always read what you wrote about yourself which means so much more than a sponsored wishlist post.
I’m really glad to hear things are going well for you! xx