Statement Made

Anyone who has read my blog for any length of time knows I have a magpie like obsession with jewellery and love to feature brands- especially independents who create gorgeously unique pieces, as much as I possibly can.

Today I bring you a new discovery of mine, Statement Made Jewellery, who very kindly popped a piece from their collection in to the post to me. In fact, it was the first piece of blogger related mail I have received in my new home, and this is also the first set of outfit photos I’ve taken in our new garden.

Anyway, Statement Made Jewellery specialise in handpicked pieces with a personal touch. Wanting their collections to reflect the uniqueness of their customers- helping them tell the world exactly who they are; 100% an ethos I can get behind!

Necklace c/o Statement Made Jewellery

I love this crystal ball style necklace, with it’s cute little “L” charm to boot. It’s already attracted a lot of attention, and has been getting a lot of wear in the few short weeks I’ve had it. It’s such a simple piece, and so perfectly me, below is an example of how I’ve been wearing it, and what my personal style is looking like right now.

Jumper: https://www.newlook.com/uk/womens/clothing/knitwear/orange-and-red-stripe-metallic-button-front-top/p/600267780?comp=Browse | Pink Cords: Primark (similar) | Boots: Miista

I feel surprisingly nervous about posting these photos, I feel like it has been so long since I last shared my personal style, and I’m very conscious of how much my body has changed in recent months, and that it still has some changing left to do. That being said, I’m also trying to ignore the gremlins that reside in my head and get back in to doing what my blog used to primarily be about- and that was documenting my outfits. Our new garden happens to have the perfect platform for taking photos which I am hoping will spur me on, and I’m starting to get back in to dressing how the real Laura always used to dress before self consciousness took over.

Apparently I’m loving a bit of pink right now, I don’t think I’ve every worn so much of one colour in a single outfit before! The jumper I picked up when New Look at 25% off knit wear, and the cords were a ridiculously low price from Primark a couple of months back. Balanced out with my two toned Miista boots which really need to get worn a lot more than they currently do, and of course, my new favourite Statement Made Accessory.

There’s so much I want on the Statement Made Jewellery website, and so many great gift ideas too! I can quite smugly say I am almost done with my Christmas shopping, but there’s always room for one or two more treats for my favourite people and I know exactly where they are coming from.
(There’s also room for one or two treats for me too, and some serious hint dropping).

I’ll leave this post here before I lose my nerve, but a big thank you to Statement Made Jewellery for the necklace- take a look at your site and let me know your favourites in the comments!

4 Money Lessons You Wish You’d Learned At School*

Maths teachers across the country are probably fed up with students asking them what the point of learning all of this stuff is, but they might have a point; most people never learned anything about money when they were at school, which means a lot of people don’t have a clue what they’re doing when they reach adulthood. You can get advice from friends and family members but when you’re trying to deal with complicated loan agreements or handle your tax affairs, it would be a big help if somebody had given you some lessons in the basics. These are some of the essential money lessons that they should have taught you at school.
What Taxes You Need To Pay

Getting your first payslip might come as a shock if you don’t really know what taxes you need to pay. You open it, only to realise that a big chunk of your money has disappeared before you get your hands on it. Most people aren’t expecting this because they don’t really have a good idea of how much tax they should be paying. This is also a big problem because if you don’t know what you should be paying- you won’t be able to tell if there is a mistake and you’re paying too much or not paying enough. Everybody has a tax code which tells your employer what tax contributions you should be paying. The percentage of your wages that you pay in tax depends on how much you earn, but a lot of people misunderstand it. If you earn £11,850 or less, you don’t get taxed on that money. Anything up to £46,350 is taxed at 20 percent; up to £150,000 is taxed at 40 percent and anything over £150,000 is taxed at 45 percent. However, people get a bit confused about what this really means. For example, if you earn £30,000, that doesn’t mean you pay 20 percent on the whole sum. You still don’t have to pay any tax on the first £11,850, you just have to pay 20 percent of the remaining £18,150. Most people tend to think that you would just have to pay 20 percent of the whole £30,000 so they’re expecting to pay more than they actually owe. This misconception can cause problems because if your tax code is wrong and you’re paying more than you need to, you might not realise.

Things get even more complicated if you’re self employed and this is something that people still don’t really know about. When you’re working for a company, the contributions are taken automatically but if you’re self employed you need to fill out a tax return every year and then you’ll get a bill that you have to pay. If you’re late or you make any mistakes on the tax return you could end up being subject to UK Tax Investigations. Any mistakes could be misconstrued as an attempt to avoid tax and that will land you in a lot of trouble.

How To Budget

This is probably the most important financial skill that you need but most people never learned a thing about it at school. If you don’t know how to manage your money properly, you’re really going to struggle in later life. Basic things like putting money into savings each month or paying off bills as soon as you get your wages through are second nature to some people, but others just don’t know what they’re doing. Being sensible with your money from an early age will put you in a good position later on when you’re trying to save for a house and put aside money for retirement etc.

How To Avoid Debt

When credit card companies send you letters in the post they make it all sound very attractive. Have some free money with no interest for a year, what could go wrong? If you haven’t been taught about the dangers of debt and how to avoid it you might think it’s a great idea to go for it. We live in a culture of debt so it’s been normalised to some extent and that leads to a lot of younger people with limited financial knowledge thinking that building up credit card debt is just something that you do. In reality, getting into a spiral of debt can be incredibly damaging both financially as well as mentally. It’s true that you probably will have to use credit cards at some point in your life but they should be considered an emergency resource, not an unlimited supply of free money.

Payday loans are especially dangerous and their advertising campaigns specifically target people that might not understand just how high the interest rates are and how easy it is to get into a cycle of debt. Always avoid payday loans at all costs, there’s always a better way. You need to live within your means and only spend what you can actually afford to. Knowing how to budget is a real help here.

What a Credit Score is

You’ve probably heard the term credit score being thrown around but chances are nobody ever taught you what it actually is, or what a good one looks like. Your credit score is basically a record of your financial history. If you’ve got a lot of debts and you’ve been missing payments on bills etc. you’re going to have a bad credit score. When you apply for loans or a mortgage in later life, they’ll look at your score to determine how likely you are to pay the money back. That’s why having a good credit score is so important. If you start running up debts now, you’re going to struggle later in life. You can check your credit score for free online but that might not help you that much if you don’t know what you’re looking at. A score higher than 700 is considered good and anything over 800 is excellent. Anything below 580 is a bad credit score and it’ll cause you trouble.

The curriculum has been changed to include these sorts of things a lot more but there are still plenty of people that missed out on important money lessons.

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Review: Squid Ink Short Fills from E-Cigarette Direct*

Another week and another vaping post, I’m not going to lie, I’m turning in to a bit of a vaping geek (and I’m totally ok with that). Following on from my post last week about how I was planning to fully embrace the vaping and finally ditch the cigarettes, today I bring to you a review of the latest short fill juices I’m trialling courtesy of my friends at e-cigarette direct, a curious sounding brand called Squid Inc.
Bob and I have both really taken to short fills, we find them much better value and we can tailor the strength to suit us by adding as much, or as little nicotine as we like.

The Squid Ink short fills are 50ml each and cost £14.99, which seems to be the standard price point- you then need to factor in another couple of quid per bottle of nicotine.

The range comes in four flavours, a brief summary of each one, and our thoughts on them below:

St Clements: A super zesty citrus mix of orange and lemon. It seems odd to describe a product like this as refreshing, but this really is. I don’t typically like citrus flavours in anything (except a gin and tonic) but this grew on me quite rapidly. It wasn’t my favourite in the range, nor Bob’s, but it’s still pretty good and certainly much better than some juices I have tried.

The Pearl Ruby: The name of this certainly piqued my interested, and it was the flavour that appealed the most to me based on description. Milk and Raspberry with a subtle hint of caramelised almonds, this was hands down my favourite of the four. Sweet enough, but not too sweet, with a smooth and subtle flavour that I really enjoyed.

Caribbean Crush: Tropical fruits with menthol doesn’t sound like it should work, but it does. I’ve never been a big fan of menthol cigarettes as I always found them harsh, but mixed with this punchy tropical blend this was a unique experience that certainly wakes you up in the morning. Again, not my favourite in the range, but certainly one I’d get again.

Barb & Cuss: A classic combination of rhubarb and custard, this tasted so realistic it was uncanny. This was Bob’s favourite of the bunch by far, and my second best next to The Pearl Ruby. I’m a big fan of rhubarb flavoured anything so I knew this would be a hit and if it hadn’t been for the slight edge on sweetness from the raspberry milk blend it would have been my top pick.

A few more weeks and I’ll post my next update in the quitting smoking process…it doesn’t really feel like quitting to be honest, vaping doesn’t feel like a nicotine replacement therapy, when actually, it kind of is. But if it’s a step away from the cigarettes and step towards a nicotine free life then that can’t be bad, right?
Any fellow vapers out there? Sometimes I feel incredibly isolated, more so by writing about it, so please do come forth!

Dating and romance: Then vs now*

We’ve all heard the expression ‘romance is dead’, and in todays world of dating app mishaps, social media meetings and ‘catfish’ TV shows, you might just believe it. Luckily, according to data, romance is very much alive and kicking in 2018; the Happiness Index Study by eHarmony recently revealed that millennials are the most romantic age group. It’s possible that this younger generation of people simply express love and affection in different ways to the older generation. Engagement ring experts Angelic Diamonds are here to take a look at changing attitudes towards dating and romance over time.
The changing definition of romance
In the past, it was normal to go on a few dates before deciding that you were officially in a relationship. People would go to the cinema or perhaps out for dinner a few times to get to know one another. There were no dating apps to help start up a conversation and no option to ‘ghost’ someone by not returning their texts — in fact, you might think that it was much more romantic back then. But, the older generation had their dating sites in the form of lonely hearts ads (the first one being published in 1695) and it’s likely that people still had the experience of being stood up. So, maybe it wasn’t that different after all.
Although it may seem as though people’s attitudes towards romance has changed a great deal, it may simply be down to the way that younger generations define and recognise romantic gestures.
According to romance studies, the five most popular gestures of affection were:

Holding hands (46%)
Cuddling (44%)
Giving a surprise gift (43%)
A romantic walk (32%)
Giving flowers (31%)

When different age groups were asked about their opinions on historically chivalrous acts, differences became clear.
When asked, different age groups had very different attitudes towards romantic acts. A huge 93% of over-45s believed there was still a place for them in the 21st century whereas 37% of 18-24 year olds disagreed. In particular, ordering for someone at a restaurant was frowned upon and taking off a hat when entering a room was also considered outdated.

What romantic gestures do different generations prefer?
Different generations also express their affection in very different ways, for example:

90% of 18-24-year-olds say that they hold hands when they’re out for a walk, 70% make sure that they go on date nights together, and 68% enjoy making romantic gestures such as writing love notes.
79% of 25-34-year-olds enjoy making romantic gestures — more than any other generation.
15% of 35-44-year-olds are less likely to go on date nights than older millennials. Holding hands during walks was the most common romantic gesture among this age group.
45-54 years olds are generally less likely to buy their partner small gifts between birthdays and more likely to hold hands during a walk.
59% of 55-64-year-olds like to go on a date night and 49% enjoy making romantic gestures.
Over 50% of 65+ year-olds like to go on date nights and 40% like making romantic gestures. They were the least likely to buy gifts for partners outside of birthdays.

All participants agreed that letting your other half know how much you value them was extremely important, with 68% of people across all generations reporting that they say ‘I love you’ at least once a day.

What to do if you’re looking for love
So, other than following the typical romantic trends for your age group, what should you do if you’re looking for love?

It’s always a good idea to show your romantic side. One study revealed that 76% of Britons would enjoy having more romance in their lives but 57% said that they didn’t make romantic gestures because they didn’t want to be seen as cheesy! It might depend on where you live, too. If you live in the capital, definitely pull some romance out of the bag to woo your other half — an astounding 86% of Londoners said that they’d appreciate more romance in their lives.
Additionally, according to Zoosk (an online dating site) users that describe themselves as ‘romantic’ in their dating profiles get 24% more matches than users who do not – and, when the phrase ‘hopeless romantic’ was said, matches were boosted by 38%.

As for date locations, less is sometimes more. Three-quarters of people surveyed in one study said that ‘snuggling in front of the fireplace’ is the most romantic date, followed by ‘candle-lit dinners’ (58%) and a ‘picnic in the park’ (45%).

As for things to avoid, people voted that mobile phone addiction, in particular at the dinner table (49%), was the biggest passion-killer. Closely followed by bad personal hygiene (45%) and rudeness (33%). So, no Snapchat or Instagram posts over dinner!

It’s clear that the definition of romance has changed a great deal. But, this doesn’t mean that we’re any less romantic in ourselves — we simply have different ways of showing it. So, don’t be afraid to let your soft side show and display some affection.

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Beauty Advent Calendars from Chemist 4 U (and discount!)

I’ve never actually had a beauty advent calendar before. I’ve been intrigued by them ever since they popped on to the scene a few years back, but I’ve never had the spare money to drop on one so have settled for chocolate each year instead (apart from last year when Bob bought me a Lego one, which was pretty much the greatest thing ever).

I was recently contacted by the team at Chemist 4 U who are stocking beauty advent calendars this year. They wanted to know if I would be interested in reviewing a couple, and of course, in the interest of research, I said yes.

I wasn’t really sure what the etiquette was on posting advent calendar reviews was- spoilers vs. no spoilers was my main concern. In the end I’ve opted for a no spoilers approach, but will share my thoughts on the contents below to help influence your decision making.

The first calendar I picked was the Morris & Co. Pamper Advent Calendar*. Chemist 4 U are selling this for £32.99 (it’s available on John Lewis for £40, just to give you an idea). This calendar contains 24 days of pampering treats which range from shower gels to bath salts, in a range of fragrances. I broke in to this calendar almost straight away as it smelt so good through the packaging! Since moving, I don’t have a bath so have passed on the bath salts and mini bath bombs the calendar contains, but the products I have tried have been lovely- although highly fragranced so approach with caution if you, or the recipient has sensitive skin.

Since Bob and I are now living together I thought it would be fun to get a his ‘n hers advent calendar which we could open together. The Ladies Fragrance Advent Calendar* and Men’s Fragrance Advent Calendar* cost a respectable £14.99 each, with an RRP of £49.99 each. Whilst you won’t find big name brands in these calendars, you still get 24 difference fragrances in perfect handbag (or pocket) sized bottles. I feel like perfume is a very personal thing so this isn’t going to bit a hit with everyone and some of the scents weren’t to our taste, but we found some hidden gems and the combined haul will keep us going, probably until next Christmas rocks around!

To celebrate this year’s stock of Advent Calendars the guys at Chemist 4 U are offering 20% off all calendar purchases. Simply add the code ADVENT20 when you check out and get even more of a bargain!

What’s the best advent calendar you’ve ever had?