What’s new (pussycat?)

Hi!
It’s been a while since I sat down (well, actually I’m kind of sprawled) to write a blog post just for the sake of writing one. I think the last time was early September and so much has changed since then, it’s insane. I’m still trying to reconcile it all in my mind, but for the most part life is grand and that’s probably why I’m finding myself emerging from my funk and wanting to do a little update.

That’s not the sole reason for this post though, the other reason is this rather magnificent jumper I purchased from ASOS Marketplace…isn’t it a beauty? I’m actually obsessed with it. The cats remind me of Pablo, and the attention to details just make me smile so much. Cats everywhere! Including on the collar. It couldn’t be more perfect for me.
Would it be too extreme to start a collection of vintage cat sweaters? I wonder if Bob would still want to marry me if I did start one…

The wedding is very much back on my mind, after a little while of not feeling very motivated to plan anything due to the ongoing uncertainty and threat of Covid-19. With the hope of a vaccine I feel a little more positive things can go ahead as planned so we’ve started working out what needs doing now and what we really can leave until the last minute. I’m allowing myself to get excited again, although I am so impatient as well, I just want to be a wife now please!

The other excitement going on right now is that shortly after my last update post we found that I had reached the required weight for the PGD/IVF referral to go ahead. Things have moved incredibly quickly and I now have a fridge full of injections ready to go. Nothing is set in stone just yet but we are likely to start this very soon. I won’t be sharing an awful lot of the process, at least not until there is a baby in my arms (however long that may take) but I just thought I’d let anyone interested know that this is where we’re at.

It’s been a turbulent year so us (and everyone else!) with some crushing blows along the way, made much worse for the global pandemic. But with that there has been some amazing highs and personal accomplishments. I honestly can’t believe we’re at this stage, and this is my life now.

Once upon a time I had written off the chance of finding love, getting married and starting a family. Now I’m well on the way to ticking off all three. I’m not brave enough (or stupid enough) to say I’m fully recovered, and some days are still an uphill battle, but I can hand on heart say I am the most “normal”, happy and healthy that I have ever been and I am just so grateful to have made it this far and for the opportunities I have been given. Hopefully one day I won’t even need to write this kind of paragraph as it will be all but a distant memory.

Well done if you’ve made it to the end of this post, I don’t blame you if you’ve skipped to the end and marvelled in the wonder of the sweater instead.

TLDR: awesome jumper, happy life, grateful rambling.

Until next time…



Degustabox October 2020*

Box gifted by Degustabox
This is a PR box, this means there will sometimes be additional flavours or products than you’d get as a subscriber, I will highlight this within my post.

I feel like the Degustabox team have really upped their game lately, the last few boxes have been absolutely brilliant (rather than just regular brilliant) and the October 2020 box, with it’s Movie Night and Halloween theme was no exception, and according to Bob, the best yet.

First up was this curious little cookie from Kookie Cat- this was an odd little treat, but really quite delicious with a perfect balance of sweet and sharp flavours and a fun red colour. Available in organic food stores.
I was all over these KitKat Senses. I love KitKats and think they are hugely under-rated. This gift box contains a mix of three flavours- salted caramel, double chocolate and hazelnut. They are completely addictive and make a nice change from the usual suspects in the boxed chocolates range. Whilst salted caramel was my favourite, I’ve happily inhaled all of these and would be more than happy to receive them as a gift.
£5 from major supermarket chains.
(Hi Pablo sneaking in there!)
Bob homed straight in on the Flapjack from Brynmor- a beast of a chocolate flapjack bar which was apparently delicious.
I left him to it and opted to claim both of the product of the month; a couple of protein bar from Yes! I love their non protein range of products so I was excited to give these plant protein ones a go. The Almond, Peanut and Dark chocolate was everything I hoped it would be. The Cashew, Blueberry and Dark chocolate wasn’t so much to my taste but I did enjoy it and for those who like fruity flavours, you’ll love this! Each bar boats 10g of plant protein making them a healthier snack that certainly fills a hole.
Flapjack £1.29 from Ocado, Waitrose, Nisa, WHSmith Travelm brynmoorfoods.com and independent retailers.
Yes Bars £1.59 each from Holland and Barrett, BP, Moto and WHSmiths.
I usually take some kind of instant noodle pot to work with me so I was excited to try something new. Naked is a brand I know and love and this Rendang Curry veg pot with mushroom and broccoli is a great addition to their range. Each pot is vegan and counts as 1 of your 5 a day. There are three flavours available- this one, Korean BBQ Ramen and Chinese Green Vegetable Broth.
£1.50 per pot from Tesco.
It’s definitely hot drinks weather! I love Costa Coffee for when I’m out and about so being able to make it at home during lockdown is a real win. This instant coffee is full of flavour and it’s my current first thing in the morning pick me up of choice.
Bob is loving the Maltesers instant hot chocolate, it’s been around a while but has a fancy new look right now. Great for a cosy evening watching a movie.
The coffee is £5.50 and the Hot Chocolate is £2.59 for a 350g tub from Morrison’s, Sainsburys and Asda.
Hello new snack obsession (yes, another one!)
The Olly’s pretzel thins were my product of the month, so crispy and well seasoned. The Multi-Seed especially really hit the savoury spot and I imagine dipped in hummus they are even better. Under 100 calories a pack, suitable for vegans and totally addictive.
£1 per pack from Amazon and Olly’s online shop.

How cute is the packaging for these Whaoo! chocolate filled crêpes? Both Bob and I grew up snacking on similar products so these were a real blast from the past and every bit as good as we remembered. These are great for children and adults alike, and being individually wrapped they are perfect for on the go.
£1.75 for 8 from Asda, Morrison’s, Ocado, Spar and Go Local.

I love Reese’s products so I immediately claimed these mini peanut butter cups for myself- then went out and bought myself the advent calendar. I love the mini cups as I think the ratio is better. This bag didn’t last long.
£1.50 from all major retailers.
We’ve tried these Attack a Snak nachos from previous boxes so I won’t repeat myself too much. But I will mention they are currently running a promotion to win cinema tickets (running from 1/9/20 until 31/12/20) which would be a real little post lockdown bonus.

We love a good burger in this house, and these pre-sliced brioche buns from St Pierre are the perfect vessel for them, We’ve popped most of these in the freezer but of course had to give them a whirl and can confirm they are delcious- especially lightly toasted.
£2 for 6 from Tesco.


There was also a voucher in this month’s box to get some Scarestrings Strawberry Yollies but I couldn’t find them in any of my local shops so wasn’t able to review these.

Let me know if you’ve tried any of these products and what you thought in the comments, it’s always great to get other people’s thoughts.

If you’re new to Degustabox, it’s a monthly food subscription box that gives you the chance to try new and exciting products on the market whilst providing amazing value for money.
On a month by month basis the box costs £12.99 (with a discount for longer subscriptions) but the contents are generally worth far more than this as you can see if you do the maths.

If you’re persuaded to give Degustabox a go (and really, you should) you can claim £3.00 off of your first box (making it just £9.99!) by entering the code XOQGC at the checkout. It’s been a pleasure to work with the brand regularly over the last couple of years and it’s without a doubt something that I will continue to purchase long after our partnership ends. I love the monthly surprise and excitement as well as the chance to discover products I’d otherwise pass up on the supermarket shelves.

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The Shacket*

https://femmeluxe.co.uk/
Shacket c/o Femme Luxe

I’m not very up on current trends these days, I spend the majority of my days in office appropriate clothing and the majority of my evenings in PJs- more so than ever thanks for lockdown.
There is, however, one trend that I’m very much aware of, and very much in love with, and that is “the shacket”.

https://femmeluxe.co.uk/

After spending a few weeks eyeing them up, I was then kindly allowed to pick an item or two from Femme Luxe and immediately picked out this shacket from their wide range of coats and jackets.

Having worked with Femme Luxe before, covering their loungewear range, I knew I’d be getting an item that had great quality and was a great price (currently this shacket is on offer for just £18.69!

https://femmeluxe.co.uk

And what is a shacket? Well, I suppose I should have explained that at the start of my post, but basically it’s a shirt that is thick and warm enough to be worn as a jacket. This particular version is made from brushed flannel with a super-soft lining and is perfect for wearing on those days where it’s not quite cold enough for a coat, but you definitely need an extra layer.

https://femmeluxe.co.uk/

The rest of my outfit consists of a Primark jumper, a pair of Scotch and Soda black skinny jeans that I picked up in a local charity shop for £5.99 (my second designer denim bargain!) and my current favourite ankle boots from Zara.

I’m aware my blogging has become even more sporadic of late, there has been a heck of a lot going on in my world, Covid-19 and work madness aside. I’ll try and do some kind of update soon, but in the meantime, what trends are we all loving right now?

Winter Blues: Natural Ways to Fend Off Winter Sadness and Stress*

While winter can be a happy occasion to some as they prepare to celebrate the holidays, it can cause a drop in mood, energy, and motivation in others- but what is it that makes you feel gloomy and tired during winter?

The main reason is reduced sunlight, which in turn affects your body’s internal clock. When there is no sunlight your body produces melatonin, a hormone that makes you feel sleepy and tired. Additionally your pituitary glands also secrete serotonin that destabilises your mood.

The cold temperatures and longer nights may also affect your overall mood and energy levels. You may, therefore opt to avoid socialiaing or even participating in physical activities. You also may end up adopting unhealthy habits that can negatively affect your health and lead to stress.

Here are some strategies you can employ to avoid falling into a winter slump.

Eat a Healthy Diet

When it gets cold your body may experience a craving for meals rich in fats, carbohydrates, and sugar. However, it would be best to avoid such meals since they will only make you feel energised for a short while and leave you feeling moody, tired, and lethargic.

Instead, get your body used to a healthy diet long before the start of winter. Your diet should largely comprise whole grains, plant protein, and vegetables.

You could try adding in CBD products too, as CBD has been found to have a positive effect on overall mood. Here is a beginner guide you can use to learn more.Delta 8 THC is another option that you could go for within the cannabinoid product family, though you will need to check its legal status where you are before you go ahead and purchase, as it is more tightly controlled than CBD. While Delta 8 may produce a slight high, it doesn’t get you as high as Delta 9 does

Exercise Regularly

As you start feeling moody and sleepy it is easy to drop any healthy routines you had created, such as exercising, and opt to stay in bed. However, you should avoid being sedentary all the time and exercise regularly. When you are sedentary feelings of unhappiness and low self-confidence can arise. When you exercise, your body produces hormones that can ease your anxiety and improve your physical and mental health.

Get Some Light Therapy

Rather than staying indoors, take advantage of any chance you have to enjoy some daylight. By exposing your body to sunlight you can readjust the sleep-wake cycle back to normal. Even though it may be cloudy just the exposure to natural light is key to better emotional health.

Get Enough Sleep

It is common to become moody and have trouble focusing if you do not get enough sleep. Your body requires sleep for it to heal your mind and body. Ideally you should sleep for not less than 7 to 8 hours every day. With enough sleep your body will feel more relaxed, allowing you to take on the day’s activities with enough energy.

Practice Relaxation Techniques

A winter slump can lead to the development of stress and anxiety disorder, both of which negatively affect your health. Try to raise your mood and energy by engaging in exercises that can make you relax or even try CBD gummies. Relaxation is the opposite response to stress.

You can employ relaxation practices that include mindful meditation, breath focus, visualization, yoga, tai chi, and qigong. Rather than sticking to one technique, you can try several to find out what works best for you.

Summing Up

Do you feel moody during winter? Your moods have a direct relationship with the winter weather. As it gets colder, your body fails to keep its complex chemical and biological rhythms in sync. As a result, you may feel tired, sleepy, and moody.

Failure to take charge of your body can lead to stress and even depression. However, you can fight the winter blues by keeping active during winter and embracing healthy habits such as having enough sleep and eating healthy meals.


Radical Equality with The Other Bar

The Other Bar

The Other Bar is an experiment in Radical Equality, designed to take a bite out of poverty through the simple act of buying a chocolate bar.

Powered by the UNDP and FairChain Foundation.

The first step in radical equality is to buy The Other Bar, the second is scan the token in the pack and help a farmer buy a cocoa tree. When scanned it’s equivalent to a quarter of a cocoa-producing tree. So for every four bars bought, a farmer can grow more, earn more and feed his family thanks to a fairer system.

There’s a twist. You don’t have to spend the token on a tree, you could use it to get 25p off your next purchase. Either way, it’s a win win for farmers.

At the moment farmers only get 3% of the value of the cocoa used to produce the chocolate we see in the shops, this means that the majority of farmers struggle to make a liveable income.

The system of buying for a low price and then selling for an inflated one has produced a huge imbalance in the world.
At the moment global brands spend more than £500 billion a year on advertising, and we only need £140 billion to end world poverty- imagine if we could convince manufacturers to invest some of the money they spend on advertising on having a positive impact?

Right now there is a really easy way in which we can help. All we need to do is purchase The Other Bar and we’re already making a difference.
Even better, if you use the code RADICALEQUALITY when you purchase your bar you will get a pack of 4 bars – the equivalent to 1 new cacao tree – for the price of 1 bar.
What’s stopping you getting involved and pushing for #radicalequality

(Also, having tried this chocolate myself I can confirm it’s really bloody delicious and I’ll swiftly be popping over to the online shop to do my bit!)

Right now there is a really easy way in which we can help. All we need to do is purchase The Other Bar and we’re already making a difference.
Even better, if you use the code RADICALEQUALITY when you purchase your bar you will get a pack of 4 bars – the equivalent to 1 new cacao tree – for the price of 1 bar.
What’s stopping you getting involved and pushing for #radicalequality

(Also, having tried this chocolate myself I can confirm it’s really bloody delicious and I’ll swiftly be popping over to the online shop to do my bit!)